If you are wondering what this is in reference to, please feel free to read up on DateLush's blog:

http://www.geekplusone.co m/member /285/blog/1/46/

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I nteresti ng read, just for fun, I'll try and stick up for the guys.

1) Men also like to flirt. Unlike women, who might occasionally wink smile or kiss you and sometimes mean it, guys almost always never mean it. This usually means that: a) We are bored, and want to grab the first decent thing we see and get some "stress" out of our systems, b) our girlfriends are annoying us and the oral sex isnt doing it for you anymore, I mean you won't visit me at work on my lunch break... what? or c) we straight up like you and are willing to give you more than the hour or two it usually requires for us to find you at a bar, get you drunk, and take you back to the place, or sometimes maybe not even all the way there ; ) I am by no means the ultimate spokesperson on men, but if you like pizza, and if you like beer, then those ARE the staples of a diet worth founding a relationship on ; )

2) Women are better at cheating then men? Now if you are going to make such a sexist claim, you better have evidence to back it up. Saying so implies that women are generally more clever and have their men whipped so badly, that their heads are always too clogged up with notions of their hot g/f, to even notice if she is cheating. Bzzzz! Wrong! It is perfectly natural for somebody with an ego to make such a claim, but I have seen far more men cheat successfully on their women, than I have seen the reverse, and even for the women who do catch the men, most of them just go back to the guy afterwards anyway, which I guess means that the men ARE better at it. But any guys I know and I mean ALL of them that find out their g/f is cheating, not only do they destroy her reputation and never talk to her again, but they also take care of the guy as well. I don't condone cheating either, but really, if your woman isnt satisfying you, just get rid of her and find a new one. Or ask her if she would consider a threesome (if she loves you, she will say yes) Be careful if your g/f has more guy friends? I dont see what that has to do with anything, everybody has at least 2 friends they have slept with and kept as friends, it doesnt mean you have to sit there and control your girlfriend and just drive her to sleep with them when you do get out of town. I think it's better if a girl has more guy friends, because it is easier to impress the guys than it is to have a dozen girls gossip and judge you to the point where you feel like you are constantly on trial. Your points so far are fun to read but seem largely personal and terribly inaccurate. Let's continue!

3) Ok you have a valid point here, BUT to the guys I say this. This is a fairly obvious statement and should not be an eye opener to any guy out there. Until a girl says its a relationship, then it is never official. You can be dating her, and she might not be sleeping with you for one reason or the other and instead be boning 6 other guys, who knows. The point is, with any girl, as you should be doing anyway, you have to treat your girl like she is the most important thing in your life. Women deserve to be treated with respect and dignity, and trust. If you are serious about a girl that makes you chase her around, or doesnt call when she says she will, or is constantly blowing you off for her friends, then in all honestly, get rid of her. You have some pride too. My point here is that until you are able to win over a girl, both in mind and in body, then you might as well be throwing other men at her. So be confident and give her what those other guys can't, something to love. And to all the women that have 4 or 5 f**k buddies, you are all not welcome to hang out with me.

4 ) I am honestly liking how you start off every argument with a pop culture reference, which seems to draw out a laugh or a smile, right before you crush my dreams as a man. Like really? Is this article supposed to help men, or utterly seep away any confidence they even have left? And another thing, this is supposed to be like a dating website right? Are you guys going to get dating advice from a girl who is posting on a dating website? What are you even doing here if you are so popular, this place is for geeks, not run of the mill , common girls, the type that would even fit the profiles that you are describing. Post your stuff on pop culture on something more mainstream, you will find similar types around there. You won't find players over here, not this early at least. Im a geek, and in fact i seem to still be geek of the week and I can tell you, that all of your advice is totally irrelevant to my various experiences in life and completely self centered and out of place.

Let the debates begin!

(I enjoyed the writing though, don't get me wrong)